self care
Buy your own darn gift.
Recently, I explained to my team, that I experience a sort of emotional rollercoaster after an event or planning session. Initially, I’m excited, energized, and filled with hope about the future of the organization. Then, pretty quickly afterwards, I feel exactly the opposite. I feel...
Five Ways a Non-Profit Executive Director Can Survive When the Job Gets Ugly
Being a non-profit executive director can be a very rewarding experience. It doesn’t take long in the job to see the impact of the organization’s work and to feel truly proud to be part of the team. Those moments are a wonderful gift, and a time that should be savoured, if only because there...
When to Answer a Question with a Question
Most decisions at a non-profit will cross the executive director’s desk at some point. While we might have an amazing team, we will still field questions about budget limitations for programs and advice for challenges. We are often the first stop for questions about the operations of...
Don’t Hate Everyone at the Same Time
Let’s get real for a minute. Sometimes the work of an executive director means you hate everyone – your team, your board, your clients. The trick is to not to hate everyone all at the same time. Last week was a rough one for me. People were NOT happy, and they clearly blamed me. It doesn’t...
Busy Week
I’m having such a busy week and it isn’t even half finished. Sometimes balancing the job and home life can begin to feel frenetic. So, I did something this week I don’t normally do. I hired help. Weird thing is that in my work as an executive director we hire help all the time. We have a...